What if it Rains on my Wedding Day? (And No, it's not Ironic.)
“It’s like ra-a-ai-in, on your wedding day…”
Thanks, Alanis, for the lyrics that strike fear and trepidation in the hearts of most brides. The thought of rain ruining the day that a bride has meticulously planned for months can instill panic and dread! But it’s not ironic…it’s a very real possibility.
First, let me say: I’ve been photographing weddings for over a decade, and if there’s one truth I’ve come to embrace—it’s that the weather has a mind of its own. I’ve shot weddings in blazing sun and heat, freezing cold, soft mist, a hurricane, and downpours that seemed to roll in out of nowhere. And here’s the comforting part: some of the most breathtaking, emotionally rich images I’ve ever taken have been on rainy wedding days.
So let’s take a deep breath together, and talk through how to handle rain on your wedding day—not with panic, but with perspective, preparation, and maybe even a little excitement!
1. Shift Your Mindset: Rain Doesn’t Ruin the Day—It Adds to the Story
Rain is not a disaster. It’s weather—and it’s often beautiful. Think soft, romantic light (overcast skies are a dream for photographers), the glisten of raindrops on roses, and cozy moments under an umbrella with your new spouse.
Rain doesn’t erase the magic of your wedding. It adds texture to your story. It reminds you that love doesn’t need perfection—it just needs presence.
Rain tells the story that when things don’t go according to plan, you can still remain present and enjoy the special moments.
2. Plan for It Early, Then Let It Go
As your photographer, I always have a rain plan. I stalk the weather forecast beginning the week before your wedding! If there is any chance of rain, or if it’s in the middle of summer, I come prepared. I scout covered locations, I bring protection to keep my equipment dry, I have a clear shower curtain to use under a bride’s dress if the ground is muddy, I bring extra changes of clothes and shoes, and I have a set of clear umbrellas in my wedding kit. Here’s what you can do ahead of time:
Talk to your venue: Do they have covered or indoor alternatives for your ceremony or portraits? ALWAYS have a Plan B just in case!
Talk to your planner or photographer about a "rain plan" timeline: Sometimes we can adjust the order of events to make the most of dry windows.
Invest in cute umbrellas: Clear or white umbrellas photograph beautifully. There are even fun “hat” umbrellas that work great for groomsmen, if they want to have a bit of fun!
Consider a backup pair of shoes: Bring shoes you can walk around in if the ground is wet.
Once you have a backup plan in place, let it go. The emotional energy is better spent being present, laughing with your people, and soaking in the love around you.
A hurricane decided to crash Lanae and Dustin’s wedding, but that didn’t ruin their fun!
3. Be Flexible, and Trust Your Team
Rain may shift the day’s flow slightly—but that’s where having experienced vendors (like your photographer) makes all the difference. We know how to pivot and adapt, and we often see creative opportunities where others see obstacles.
Maybe we sneak outside during a break in the rain for dreamy misty portraits. Maybe we use reflections in puddles for a modern, editorial look. Maybe we go inside and capture intimate, candlelit moments that feel cinematic. Either way—you’re covered.
It poured like a monsoon during Sunnye and Kyle’s ceremony…everyone was soaking wet. But it didn’t matter…we all made the most of it!
4. Your Mood Matters More Than the Forecast
Here’s something I’ve learned from years of watching couples navigate unexpected weather: the vibe of the day follows you. If you’re joyful, present, and choosing to embrace the moment—your guests follow suit, and your photos radiate that joy.
You don’t have to fake it. If you’re disappointed, that’s okay too. But then remember: the rain isn’t the story of the day. Your love is! And that never gets rained out.
5. Bonus: Rain Means Good Luck (And Great Light)
You’ve probably heard the old saying that rain on your wedding day is good luck. It supposedly brings fertility and abundance, cleansing and renewal. Whether or not you believe in superstition, I’ll tell you what I believe: rain brings a softness and calm that can actually enhance your experience. It can slow things down. It can bring people closer. And the light? Oh, that light—diffused, soft, and flattering—is a photographer’s dream.
In Closing: Don’t Just Weather the Rain—Dance in It
Your wedding is a once-in-a-lifetime moment. And sometimes, the most unforgettable photos come from the unscripted parts. The raindrop kiss. The laughter as someone holds your train above the puddles. The warm glow of string lights as the rain patters gently around you.
So if rain makes a cameo on your big day, know this: you’re still going to have the most beautiful wedding. You’ll still say “I do.” And I’ll be right there, capturing the magic—raindrops and all.
A summer thunderstorm didn’t prevent Amanda and David from having their sparkler exit…we just gave all their guests umbrellas and they danced in the rain.
Kimberly Cauble…
is a teacher and wedding & portrait photographer in the Charlotte, NC area who has been photographing families, seniors, and weddings since 2012. She has photographed over 100 weddings and loves people, the art of photography, bringing a calming presence to a wedding day, and sharing what she has learned with others!
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